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Not what it seems STUCK

It’s not what it seems | Shira Gura

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Many times we experience situations and we are adamant that we are right. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. When we analyze what is factual instead of what we think to be true, sometimes it’s not what it seems to be. Remember, your perception determines how you feel. Your feelings determine what you do. Reframing what you perceive to be true will help you live a healthy life. Life coach and author, Shira Taylor Gura shares her amazing book, Getting unStUCK: Five Simple Steps to Emotional Well-Being. She shares her own struggles with getting stuck on many situations in her life and how she was determined to Learn more…

Self-blackmail

Emotional blackmail and the importance of vulnerability | Dr. Pat Williams

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Emotional blackmail holds you hostage. We are all familiar with movies which depict someone being blackmailed for an act they committed. We often don’t realize that we do the same thing to ourselves and hold so many secrets inside of us. The self-talk we create about any situation determines what we keep to ourselves based off of shame and guilt. When you self-blackmail you withhold peace, joy and happiness. Learning to let things go allows you to live your life to its fullest. Life Coach, Dr. Pat Williams reviews his new book, Getting Naked: On Being Emotionally Transparent at the Right Time, the Right Place, and with Learn more…